Ask Aunt B

I absolutely hate the heat. I am miserable the entire summer and make everyone around me miserable. Do you think I should consider relocating?

Dear Too Hot to Handle, I hear you loud and clear. Summer can be a real scorcher, especially when the heat feels like it's trying to melt you right into the sidewalk. This time of year always gets me thinking of cooler climates. I keep telling myself that it is too soon to start dreaming of fall, but there I go.

First off, feeling miserable in the summer isn't something to brush off. Heat can take a toll on our physical and mental well-being. It's no small thing if you find yourself dreading the season year after year. So let's get into some of your options and see if a move to a cooler climate might be the right choice for you.

Let's start by acknowledging how oppressive heat can affect us. Physically, excessive heat can lead to dehydration, heat exhaustion, and in severe cases, heat stroke. It’s hard to enjoy anything when you're constantly battling to stay cool. Then there's the mental aspect. Heat can sap your energy, making you feel sluggish and irritable. If you're finding it hard to cope, you’re not alone, and it’s completely valid to seek a solution.

Moving is a big decision. Does this potential move affect only you, or are there other people? Have you discussed all this with significant people in your life? It’s not just about the climate; it’s about lifestyle, family, finances, and your overall happiness. Let’s break it down: If cooler weather sounds like a slice of heaven, then researching climates is your first step. Think about places that offer the kind of weather you enjoy. Do you love the crisp air of fall? Or perhaps you crave the cooler, temperate summers found in places like the Pacific Northwest or New England.

Cooler climates can sometimes come with a higher cost of living. For instance, areas with desirable weather often attract more people, which can drive up housing prices. Make sure to research and compare the cost of living in any potential new home. Budgeting for utilities, housing, and groceries in a new area is crucial.

Consider the job opportunities in the cooler climates you're looking at. If you're working, you'll need to ensure that the job market is favorable for your profession. Remote work is an excellent option if your job allows it, giving you more flexibility in choosing a location.

Moving away from loved ones can be tough. Evaluate how much of a support system you would have in a new place. It might be exciting to think about starting fresh, but having friends and family nearby can be a great comfort.

Your health is paramount. If heat is making you miserable, a cooler climate could significantly improve your quality of life. But remember, cooler climates can also mean dealing with other weather challenges like long winters, snow, and ice. Make sure you're prepared for all seasons in your new location.

Before you pack up and go, consider if there are ways to make your current situation more bearable. Here are a few ideas:

• Invest in Better Cooling Solutions: Air conditioning, cooling fans, or even a small pool could make your summers more tolerable.

• Change Your Routine: Adjust your schedule to take advantage of cooler parts of the day. Early mornings and late evenings can be much more pleasant.

• Travel During Summer: If feasible, plan to spend the hottest months in a cooler location. This could be an annual escape that gives you relief without the need to move permanently.

I remember when a friend of mine moved to Idaho from Dallas. She couldn't stand the heat another second and made the move after much deliberation. Now, she spends her summers enjoying cool breezes in nature, and she’s never been happier. It was a big change, but it brought her the peace she was craving.

So, take your time to weigh your options. Whether you decide to stay put and make some changes or move to a cooler climate, know that your comfort and happiness are worth the effort.

Love,

Aunt B

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