Dear Aunt B Readers, Here we go again. I feel the need to give you my take on starting anything over. It may feel to you that this is a failure. I see it as a complete success. Those of us who start over and continue to do the starting over as long as it takes are the people that never give up. That’s a good thing. I love it that I don’t give up. I like that I continue to reach for higher and better things.
Have you been working on your list? Are you a little clearer than you were before on what you do want? I sure hope so, because clarity is gold. Remember, this is a continuing process. Don’t ever stop. This list should be ongoing. Why would you continue this list even if you have a bunch on your list? The reason to continue is because your wants don’t ever stop. Life presents itself and, with all that it presents, more and more desires surface. This again is a good thing. Don’t stop this process even if your mind is saying some ugly things to you.
Your mind could be saying things like: Are you never satisfied? You are being selfish and thinking too much about yourself.
You already have so much, it is not right to ask for more.
These are all lies. I don’t want you to argue with these thoughts. Arguing with any person, thought, or experience really does nothing to help the situation. What I do is say to my mind when it starts its ugly chatter is, “Thank you for sharing,” and then I just dismiss the thought.
So continue keeping your list of all your wants. What you do next is gold. Ask yourself the question, “Who do I need to become to get this thing I want?” Again, your mind could start telling you lies again.
These lies could sound like:
You can’t become that person.
You will never become that person.
You’ve tried all this before.
Stop while you’re ahead.
These things are for other people, not people like you.
I sure wish all this was really this easy.
Don’t fall for all this mumble jumble.
Good things don’t happen for you.
You don’t deserve good things.
ALL LIES. I REPEAT, ALL LIES. Again, don’t argue, just keep doing your work. What you want is on the other side of all those lies.
When I am looking at my lists, I repeat that I am open to all of the goodness. I am also open to the inspiration of action to become who I need to become to bring this into my life. Some people believe, and of course you are welcome to believe anything you want, that you just attract without action. I believe the action is where the fun is. Frankly, I would get bored just sitting around doing nothing. What I want is inspired, fun action. If you pay attention, you will know the action that you need to take.
Expect good things to come into your life.
Love, Aunt B
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